I got into an interesting
conversation about prayer early this week. It started with a magazine
article the person had read about “unanswered prayer” and moved onto
various personal and research accounts about prayer across cultures.
Since it is Lent, a season focused on prayer and reflection, and I am a
minister, the reader got to talking with me.
Technically,
theologically (at least in 21st century U.S. mainline Protestant
Christianity, to disclose my perspective) prayer can be categorized as
of “adoration,” of “supplication,” of “confession” or “repentance,” of
“intercession,” or of “thanksgiving.” If you pay attention to my
“classically trained” prayers, you will hear “Wow, you are wonderful,
God,” “Could you help me/us with this,” “We made mistakes,” “Can you
help so-and-so with something,” and “Thank you for what you have done
for us” prayers, respectively.
The magazine article and
most research deals with prayers of supplication and intercession.
Makes sense, since these are typically the most urgent ones, the prayers
where we ask divine help for ourselves or others having troubles.
These are also prayers which may or may not yield the results we ask
for. Prayers of thanksgiving or adoration are pretty much given to God
out of a sense of gratitude. Prayers of confession rise from guilt or
shame, which we ask may be removed so we can do better. But
supplication and intercession are more transactional and can be tracked:
did so-and-so get better?
Some religious traditions
believe prayers cause the divine to do something for the pray-er, while
others (such as Protestantism) believe in God’s sovereignty, which rules
out prayers coercing God into doing human will. Ancient religions had
no such qualms about saying, “Baal, I brought two sheep to sacrifice, so
you owe me a good harvest.” Around us, other Christian traditions are
comfortable asking God for things with the expectation God will give it
to them, ranging from material blessings to healings. Some prayers
don’t have the desired outcome. In general, if the result doesn’t come
through, more people believe their faith or worthiness is lacking and
they need to pray harder, but some believe it is God’s failure.
Certainly, it can be emotionally difficult when prayers you have set
your heart on don’t come to pass.
Still, most people who
pray believe it is worth doing, often saying it helps clarify your
thoughts and center yourself. Contemplative praying is often described
as very freeing and beneficial. Quite a few years ago there were
studies of contemplatives and mystics of many traditions around the
globe, and the health and wellness benefits were both physical and
psychological. Praying is good for you, the pray-er.
The
next question is far, far more interesting: is praying good for the
other person? The research is not so conclusive, partly because the
internal experience of spiritual energy is hard to quantify. Of course,
scientists keep trying, but prayer refuses to be pinned down.
One small study I saw took persons described as successful pray-ers from
many faith traditions and set them to praying for a number of subjects
who were asked to report on what they felt at different times. In
general, the results were positive; the recipients of prayers felt
better because they were being prayed for. I am more intrigued by
another study (also across different faith traditions) in which prayer
athletes were given persons to pray for, with specific sorts of
externally determinable results: “did the person’s cancer go in to
remission?” The wrinkle was that the recipients didn’t know they were
being prayed for! The results were not as good statistically. Clearly
an important dynamic is that subjects for prayers know they are in our
prayers and know of the support, and that makes a huge difference. Even
being aware of an anonymous prayer circle around you is beneficial, and
it appears that even non-religious recipients of prayer have more sense
of well-being. Sometimes that provides medical relief or other
tangible benefits, but not always. So prayer “works” in that sense,
even if there is no change in the medical outcome, for instance.
Intercessory prayer surely works because of the person-to-person
connection, not necessarily because of some energy flux causing cancer
cells to evaporate.
And that, to me, is how many people
will speak of a broader sense of healing rising from other people’s
prayers even if the physical results are not dramatic nor contravene
scientific expectations. Parishioners whose illness or problems are not
removed say to me that they feel loved and supported and safe in God’s
love and the love of others even when the scans come back worse. We are
not just the sum of our finances or medical conditions, and a nuanced
sense of prayer understands that. Sure, we can start by asking for
bodily healing, but we may well discover our greatest healing is
emotional and spiritual. In that sense, I totally know prayer works!
So let’s do a bit extra praying this Lent, especially of thanksgiving
and penitence, but also for others we know and care about. If a Lenten
trial run of intercessory prayer seems good to you, I encourage you to
join the group of people on the email prayer list each week and the
group of people who gather at the front of the sanctuary offering
prayers in person to others. Prayer works… particularly if you work on
it!
Thank you, God, for the privilege of prayer!
In Christ,
David
Texts For Sunday Worship:
From the Hebrew Bible Genesis 17: 1-7, 15-16
From the Epistles Romans 4: 13-25
From the Gospels Luke 8: 1-3
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